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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
My parents have this.My Dad`s Chiron on 18 Sagittarius squares my Mum`s Venus on 18 Virgo.
HOwever this is embedded in a piece of larger planetary geometry:
his Chiron: 18 Sagittarius
his Pluto: 17 Leo
his Saturn: 18 Virgo
his Neptune: 17 Libra
his Mercury: 18 Capricorn
her Venus: 18 Virgo
her Neptune: 19 Libra
her Pluto: 21 Leo
However, concentrating on the Venus-Chiron alone (though I am not sure this s even possible if it is part of larger geometry).
First of all the good news: They have met in 1971, married in 1974, and have been inseparable ever since.
Still to the very day, over 40 years later, you can still sense how attracted they are to each other, and how much they love each other. They are even still holding hands, when going for a walk together. lol
However, they also have their disagreements, and there can be a lot of nagging going on, into both directions, though for some reason it is nver really "serious", or at least not damaging in any kind of way.
What I noticed though is that sometimes there is a misfit in "timing".
Especially my Dad has the knack to trying to steal a hug or kiss or tease her, just when she has REALLY a lot going on and needs to finish her work.
On the other hand I think my Dad`s playfulness is a good counterbalance to her somber moods.
Sometimes it is also the other way round, but much more rarely.
I don´t know if that is true for all people or even just for that aspect, but I`d say my Dad is the more openly affectionate and vulnerable, while she is more receptive and reciprocrative.
And both can feel easily hurt by a perceived lack of appreciation of the other, even though bystanders don`t even get why the mood suddenly changed and it often is due to miscommunication or misunderstandings. They sometimes read too much into each other`s actions or words or just the tone of voice or sometimes the absence of words. lol
Funny how magi astrology says it´s the impossible dream. Does any of your parents have a venus chiron clash in their natal?
Thanks for sharing.